Throughout the past year, we’ve enjoyed an array of global travels, meaningful books, thought-provoking films, and live music experiences that prompted us to dance and sing. Deeming something “the best” is a heady move, but The Alexander Group knows a few things about exemplary talent, so we offer these 2024 arts and pop culture superlatives as we head into 2025.

Jane Howze, Managing Director

Best Film: Documentary Daughters streaming on Netflix. It’s about a daddy/daughter dance, where the fathers are incarcerated. Look for it to get an Oscar nod.

Best Concert: It’s hard to pick as I went on a concert BINGE this year. Taylor Swift (multiple shows), Joni Mitchell at the Hollywood Bowl, and the Rolling Stones in San Francisco. 

Best Trip/Travel Destination: The Gleneagles in Scotland for a bucket list golf trip.

John Mann, Managing Director

Best Film(s): Movies are Will and Harper and The Menendez Brothers documentaries. Will and Harper’s insight into a personal conversation with one of my favorite actors, Will Ferrell, and his good friend’s transformative journey. 

The Menendez Brothers is gripping— the story of these infamous brothers and their plea for mercy.

Best BookFramed by John Grisham (currently reading). It’s the perfect mix of my interest in nonfiction and crime thriller documentaries and shows like Dateline and 20/20.

Best Trip/Travel Destination: Spending Thanksgiving with family on the Big Island, Hawaii. It was an unforgettable week filled with beautiful moments, amazing company, fantastic golf, and breathtaking sunsets.

Jean Lenzner, Managing Director

Best Book: The Women by Kristen Hannah

Sarah Mitchell, Director

Best Book: All Fours by Miranda July

Wellness by Nathan Hill was a close second but was published in 2023

Best Concert/Album: Ben Folds at the San Francisco Symphony!

Best Trip/Travel Destination: We were absolutely delighted by our August visit to Bend, Oregon. Incredible hiking, views, food, and craft beer in Central Oregon. We can’t wait to go back.

Kyle Robinson, Director of Research

Best Film: Deadpool & Wolverine. Funniest movie I’ve seen in quite a while.

Best Trip/Travel Destination: Disneyworld! It was a trip “for the kids,” but it also fulfilled a lifelong wish for my wife and me. We can’t wait to go back!

Jacqueline Griffin, Director of Accounting and Administration

Best BookThe House of Cross by James Patterson

Best 2024 Concert/Album: Earth Wind and Fire and Santana

Anthony Ott, Senior Associate

Best BookAfter the Rain by Alexandra Elle. It is a book comprised of gentle reminders for Healing, Courage, and Self-Love. It is for everyone learning how to dance in the rain. Your storms do not define you. Trust your pilgrimage and uncover your joy.  It’s an easy peace-giving read.

Best Concert/Album: I went to The Beach Boys! How nostalgic that was!

Best Trip/Travel Destination: I was heading to New Orleans for a golf trip, but it was canceled at the last second because of a hurricane warning. I was at the airport and called by my brother, who was also there for our annual golf trip to celebrate our birthdays. We pivoted quickly to Las Vegas and got comped rooms at the Bellagio. We had an opportunity to play Bali Hai Golf Club, the only championship golf course remaining on the famed Las Vegas Strip. When we pulled up to the 18th hole, Butch Harmon was there watching… the most nervous I have EVER been standing over a golf ball.

Abby Buchold, Senior Research Associate

Best Concert: Sarah McLachlan in early July was the only concert I attended this year—the tickets were a birthday gift from my husband. She performed all of the songs from her 1993 album, Fumbling Towards Ecstasy. I wore that CD out and had to buy a new copy in 1997! As trailing GenX-ers, her music was a college staple for my husband and me. She’s just as amazing now as she was in the 90s!

Best Trip/Travel Destination: We traveled to beautiful Thessaloniki, Greece with some friends in May. Thessaloniki is a lovely city in northern Greece on a bay just off the Aegean, and it is the hometown of one of our travel companions. Highlights included Mt. Olympus, Philippi, and Grevena, a town known as the mushroom capital of Greece. We had nearly perfect weather and enjoyed visiting many seaside tavernas for amazing seafood. I never thought I’d love fried sardines, but I do now.

Jennifer Lee, Administrative Assistant

Best Film: Deadpool & Wolverine

Best BookAtomic Habits by James Clear (came out in 2018, but I read it this year)

Best Concert/Album: Ten Days – Fred Again

Best Trip/Travel Destination: Goldbar, Washington

Lindsay Ames, Research Associate

Best Concert/Album: My favorite concert of 2024 is a combination with my favorite travel destination (as my family and I haven’t been travelling much lately). Las Vegas, Nevada, for the Sick New World 2024 festival. 

My husband and I have gone two years in a row to this festival, for its inaugural and second years, to see our favorite heavy/nu-metal band, System of a Down.  We were planning to attend next year as well, but SOAD decided not to headline for 2025 (Metallica and Linkin Park, with their new lead singer, were co-headlining the bill instead), and the festival was not able to sell out like they had the first two years and canceled.

My, how the times have changed. Not a decade ago, businesses sought to outdo each other’s holiday parties. Companies vied for the most astonishing locale, hottest caterer, and spirits—so much so that the production overshadowed the season’s true nature.

Happy mature businesswoman receiving Christmas present from her coworkers on office party.

Ever since the New York Times and the New Yorker published articles chronicling allegations of sexual assault and harassment against producer Harvey Weinstein and seemingly every media star or mogul you have ever heard of, with more women coming forward each day, corporate America is taking notice.

Challenger, Grey & Christmas, an outplacement consulting firm, conducted a holiday party survey of 150 human resource representatives titled, “Is the ‘Weinstein effect’ causing companies to curtail celebrations?” The firm reported that about 10 percent of employers will not hold a holiday party this year after having held them in the past. Less than half of employers (47.8 percent) will provide alcohol at holiday parties this year, down from 62 percent in 2016. “Employers are currently very wary of creating an environment where inappropriate contact between employees could occur,” said Andrew Challenger, Vice President of Challenger, Gray & Christmas.

A Company Party has the Word “Company” in it.

During my 40-year career, I have attended more than 500 holiday and office parties. Most of them, even back then, were participated in by well-behaved executives, but there were always a few situations where you just shook your head and wondered, “What were they thinking?”

  • Not grokking the purpose of the party. Many people go to a holiday business party (theirs or a business client’s or partner’s) with a different mindset. They assume it is a party—which it is in a sense. More importantly, work occurs under various conditions, from regular workdays to those with many of the same people. There are people at the party who establish your salary, if you are ready for the promotion or if they want to do business with you. Because you are not in the office, it can be tempting to be overly casual or say things that you would not otherwise say in the office.
  • Hors d’oeuvres do not mean dinner. Some people at business gatherings make a beeline for the serving table and pile a plate so high with food that I worry the plate will crack from the weight. They eat so much that you cannot even distract them with a “happy holiday.”
  • Talking to only those with whom you work. If you are hosting a party for clients or potential clients, avoid the temptation to speak with your work colleagues. Remember, many of the people attending may only know a few people. You are a host, even if you don’t know many attendees.
  • Arriving too early or leaving too late. Nothing is worse than guests who attend a party 15 minutes before the event begins. Well, there is something worse: the guests have a good time staying long after the party ends.
  • Drinking too much. Getting sloshed at a business event is one of the worst ideas ever, but it happens at every holiday business party. And the next day, you can hear the whispers, “Did you see Evelyn struggle to find her way out of the house?” “Boy, Bob sure was not feeling any pain last night.” Do you want to be the person everyone talks about the next day? Will that engender respect or help your career? Enough said.

Advice from a Pro

Cindy Clifford, President of The Clifford Group and one of the nation’s leading PR gurus, has planned thousands of corporate events. She offers the following advice:

  • Dress up but not so much that you stand out. Consider the occasion. The attire for a business open house may differ from that of a cocktail party.
  • Arrive about 15 minutes after the party starts and leave before it ends. You don’t have to say goodbye when you leave; folks are busy. You can sneak out.
  • Mix and mingle with everyone. Avoid only talking to your close colleagues and those you know.
  • Make light conversation about holiday shopping, holiday plans, business, etc. It is not time to get into the nuts and bolts of work, especially not your career. And it goes without saying that this is not the year to discuss politics. Avoid pitching your business if you are at a prospective client’s gathering.
  • Eat the food. Someone planned this event, and they want to see people enjoying it. Don’t ask for a to-go box or act like this is your first meal in months.
  • Alcohol. If you have one or two drinks, switch to Perrier. Do not drive other colleagues home unless you are a solid, sober, designated driver.
  • There are different rules for home parties. If it’s at your boss’s home, bring a small gift. Do not bring a bottle of wine that says, ‘I didn’t put any effort or thought into this.’ Instead, get a book you love, a box of fancy candy, or something special. If you are attending a party at home, don’t ask for bourbon if only wine is served. Only wander the house if you ask. If you break something, let the host know.
  • Write a thank you note and mail it. This is so rare nowadays and very impressive to the receiver.
  • Respect others’ boundaries. Be careful not to become overly physically familiar with people you don’t know well. It is a new day, and it is better to err on the safe side.
  • Have fun. But remember, it’s business.

Illustration of teamwork with gears and lightbulbs symbolizing innovation and collaboration, supporting executive job search tips.

Executive job search tips can make or break your chances of landing a leadership role, especially when working with executive job search firms and experienced recruiters.

We’ve written advice on how to best prepare for, maximize, and manage meetings during a search process, whether with a search committee, a board of directors, videoconferencing, or a conference call.

Understanding executive job interview tips and showcasing qualities of professionalism are essential steps in setting yourself apart from other candidates. After all, professionalism in the workplace isn’t just about appearances—it’s about ensuring your actions align with your words and reflect your capabilities as a leader.

How to Lose Jobs and Alienate Interviewers

Generally, most successful senior executives are adept and experienced at the executive search process, but not all. And the exceptions have stood out vividly. Here are a few real-life examples of executive behaviors that have left these executive search professionals less than impressed.

Four Insights to Help You Succeed in the Executive Recruitment Process

Match your talk to your walk.

How you conduct yourself during the search process speaks volumes about how you engage as a professional and business leader. It is an opportunity to “walk the walk,” not just “talk the talk.”

A Chief Operating Officer may say that he is “highly analytical, data-centric, and impeccably precise,” but if he repeatedly asks for schedules and agendas to be re-sent, does not remember the names of people he has met with, product lines, or critical business metrics; and (despite multiple corrections) continues to bafflingly mispronounce the company’s two-syllable name—your actions are speaking louder than your words.

Likewise, if you’re 

you aren’t projecting the level of functional expertise commensurate with your profession.

Little things make a big impression.

Details matter, and making sure the fine points and “little things” are covered and done correctly is essential for success—as a Chief Executive Officer candidate recently learned. Having spent days and weeks flawlessly preparing, she called in a panic two hours before her final meeting with the board after realizing she had mistakenly flown to the wrong city. She was not selected for the role. 

We recognize that many employers no longer require regular formal business wear in the office. However, it was clear that a candidate was not ready for prime time when he arrived to interview in a suit that had been out of use for so long that dusty coat hanger creases were permanently etched into the shoulder blades.

My colleague Jane Howze describes a search committee search she ran a few years ago: “The committee was deadlocked between two outstanding candidates. What broke the deadlock was that one of the candidates answered questions with ‘What WE need to do,’ while the other candidate responded with ‘What YOU all should do.’”

Small stuff? “Absolutely,” Jane agrees, “but one candidate had already aligned herself with the organization.” She was offered the position. Demonstrating business professionalism means being detail-oriented and prepared, ensuring that even minor oversights don’t overshadow your otherwise strong candidacy.

Where was I? Oh, yes…Stay on point

While the best leaders in their fields have a clear and tangible passion for their work, savvy executives also know how to express that passion in proportion to the receptiveness of their audience and the purpose of a discussion. Do not frantically whiteboard ideas like Russell Crowe in “A Beautiful Mind” to explain your vision. Instead, be nimble and calibrate your message to your audience.

Relatedly, it’s always important to remember to stay on point—especially if you tend to go off on a tangent. If the visual representation of your response to a simple question looks like this…

“I arrived at the firm to lead a significant turnaround; revenue was down 20 percent.”

“I joined on the same day as the firm’s new General Counsel. She had come to the firm from IBM. My brother once worked for IBM. He lives in Wyoming now. I’m headed to Wyoming in two weeks for a vacation. Three years ago, my wife and I vacationed in Paris. It was a nightmare getting there. Our original flight out was canceled, etc.”

…then, your ratio of digressions to relevant points needs inverting.

Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

Scheduling meetings between hyper-busy executives is always challenging. Most of us have calendars and schedules bursting at the seams. However, offering a 45-minute window of availability during June does not demonstrate priority, flexibility, or your willingness to participate in the process.

Along the same lines, constantly demonstrating to a company that you are “pleased where I am,” that it would “take something extraordinary for me to leave,” or that you “could not imagine a better situation than I currently have,” rather than demonstrating why the organization needs you, will not motivate a company to take those “extraordinary” steps.

As we have said before, it is always crucial to “stick the landing.” Sending thoughtful thank you notes to follow up after meetings can be a differentiating touch. Just be sure you have the correct email addresses and that the note to Phil Jones, Firm X, Managing Partner, doesn’t accidentally go to Phil Jones, Firm X, Database Intern.

Mastering Executive Job Search Tips for Success

The executive job search process requires attention to detail, professionalism, and strategic preparation. Avoiding these common missteps ensures you present yourself as the polished leader organizations seek.

While the best executive job search sites can provide helpful tools, partnering with experienced executive search professionals like The Alexander Group offers personalized insights and guidance beyond what online platforms offer. 

For more executive job search tips, follow The Alexander Group on LinkedIn and explore our blog for additional resources to advance your career.

Jeremy LeBlanc has joined Fried, Frank, Harris, Shriver & Jacobson LLP as Director of Technology Services.

Mr. LeBlanc has over 20 years of multi-industry, innovative information technology executive experience, including senior technology leadership roles with major law firms, investment banking, and technology consulting firms. Before joining Fried Frank, Mr. LeBlanc served as Regional Head of Information Technology for the U.S. for Withersworldwide.


“Jeremy has an outstanding record of strategic and operational information technology experience and has been a key member of business leadership with the firms he has served with throughout his career,” said Bill Lepiesza, Director of The Alexander Group.

Fried, Frank, Harris, Shriver & Jacobson LLP is an elite Wall Street law firm with approximately 700 attorneys in New York, Washington, DC, London, Frankfurt, and Brussels. Fried Frank’s origins date to the turn of the 20th century, and it is well known for representing global financial institutions, investment banks, private equity firms, hedge funds, real estate investors and developers, and Fortune 500 corporations.

Consistently highly ranked in league tables and legal directories, including Chambers and Partners and The Legal 500, the firm is well recognized for providing highly effective solutions to sophisticated business challenges.

This search was conducted and completed by Director Bill Lepiesza and Associate Pam DeLuca.

As Thanksgiving week approaches, it is time to reflect on our many blessings both personally and professionally. Over the years I’ve shared that Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, I’ve reflected on the gauntlet of travelling during the busiest day for air travel, and polled our team on their favorite Thanksgiving foods.

This year, acknowledging the less blessed moments of family gatherings, I asked our team to offer our readers advice: How to survive awkward family moments over the holiday—from diffusing heated political discussions, to ignoring that embarrassing thing your weird uncle does, to nice things to say about a disastrous turkey, to negotiating old traditions in a newly blended family. We’ve changed names and details to protect the innocent (and the guilty) to avoid a new awkward moment this Thanksgiving.

I’ll start us off:

Flipping the Bird

Eight years ago, in November, I packed up my life and moved to California. I was coming here for all the right reasons: business opportunities, the weather, love and more taxes (of which I remind my lovely Faith every April 15th!).

What I didn’t know was that holiday time would include the past spouse. It seems I found myself the Mother Theresa of northern California, and all orphans were welcome, large or small.

Settling in to this novel concept was challenging, but what started as mild concern turned into awkward alarm when HE put the bird on my grill and announced he would make it. Didn’t he know the adage: Never touch another man’s grill?

I haven’t touched a turkey in eight years!

Finally, we begged off the “bring an X” tradition, and I thought this year would be my chance. I was wrong.

“My daughter is bringing her chef friend,” Faith announced with glee. “He’s smoking the turkey!”

My advice? There’s always football.

Best. Brownies. Ever.

Sometimes, families clash over the ingredients of traditional holiday dishes. One person may insist that marshmallows top the sweet potato casserole, while another vehemently protests. One family member can’t eat gluten; another is horrified that the stuffing is gluten-free. Then, there is the “special” ingredient that one Thanksgiving guest added to a batch of brownies. Alex & Red Managing Director John Mann tells the story:

Thankfully, most of my Thanksgiving holidays have been intentionally innocuous and time well spent with family and friends. However, several years ago a friend shared a story of her Thanksgiving holiday. She was hosting Thanksgiving that year and asked each family member attending to bring a specific dish—rolls, stuffing, sides and desserts. Her sister volunteered to bring brownies but took it a step further and made an “adults only” batch of brownies. To my friend’s surprise, her sister persuaded a few of her teetotaling senior relatives to try them. Needless to say, she reported that by early evening most of the adults were mellow and agreeable, or sound asleep.

John’s advice? Pass the brownies.

“So… when am I going to be a grandma?”

Research Associate Abby Buchold reminds us, “with the holidays approaching, many of us will be at the table or sitting on the couch with overly curious relatives. I count myself lucky that neither my parents nor my in-laws ever prodded me with questions about having kids, but occasionally one of my husband’s relatives would get up the nerve to ask him about it. (I think they were afraid to ask that in front of me.) My husband tells me they never ask again if he gives this answer, ‘I’m too selfish to have kids.’”

Abby’s advice? Silence a cringe-worthy line of questioning with a polite but firm response.

It’s 5 o’clock somewhere

Senior Associate James Irvine shares this story:

In 2015, my parents, brother, fiancée and 13 aunts, uncles and cousins gathered in Carmel, California for Thanksgiving. It was great to get everyone together in a breathtakingly gorgeous place, but 18 adults under one roof can get hectic! Late afternoon on Thanksgiving day, a few of us drove to Pebble Beach to grab a cocktail, as is necessary when navigating such a large family gathering.

Jamie’s advice? Keep your cool with a cocktail (as long as it’s enjoyed in moderation).

The introvert’s guide to Thanksgiving, by Research Director Kyle Robinson

For introverts, large gatherings of people—yes, even family members—can quickly drain their energy. It is tiring to always be “on” and carry on conversations with people you haven’t seen since the previous holiday season (and to bite your tongue when your crazy uncle starts off on one of his political rants again). So, here are a few easy tips for any introvert to remember while surviving the holiday season.

1. Come prepared with talking points. Have some conversation starters prepared to help avoid those awkward silences that send introverts running for the hills. Remember that your cousin John recently moved to California; ask him how he is enjoying the weather at this time of year. Ask your Aunt Susan how retirement is treating her, and whether she has any trips planned for the coming year.

2. Step away for a few minutes. When you have reached your people limit, find a quiet place to retreat to for a few minutes to sit in solitude. Or, take a short walk around the block for a few minutes of peace.

3. Help out your host in some way. Giving yourself some sort of task helps keep your mind focused on one thing, while simultaneously making yourself seem social. Take people’s coats as they arrive, help set the table, or offer to do the dishes. It requires very little social interaction while at the same taking care of a huge chore that nobody likes to do.

4. Remember for what you are thankful. Large social gatherings are tedious for introverts, like me. But be thankful to have people in your life who care about you enough to want to include you in their celebration.

The holiday season will be over soon enough. Then, the introverts of the world can go back to enjoying wild nights at home with Netflix.

It wasn’t me!

Marketing Director Susan Hunt shares this story:

One year, my three kids and their five cousins disappeared upstairs at Mimi’s and Grampy’s house. Mimi kept an antique-looking phone in the guest bedroom that the kids assumed was disconnected. As children are wont to do, they cavalierly dialed 9-1-1 and listened, horrified, as the phone began to ring. They quickly hung up. And waited.

Several minutes later, the doorbell rang. Uncle Scotty answered the door to find a Sherriff’s deputy waiting outside. “Did someone dial 9-1-1?” he asked. The adults convened in the entryway and quickly called the children downstairs. Choruses of “it wasn’t me!” greeted us as the children shuffled downstairs. The sheriff understood and after some neighborly chit-chat and declining a piece of pie, he went on his way. Diplomatically, the parents, satisfied that the children were appropriately chastised, dropped the matter. At least until later that evening.

As we drove home, I grilled my kids again: “I believe you’re innocent,” I said, knowing my little angels would never lie to me. “Just tell me who did do it.” “It was ____________!” they confessed, throwing their cousin under the bus. I knew it all along.

Susan’s advice? Diplomacy first (duplicity later).

Director Sarah Mitchell’s catch-all advice:

My catch-all solution for whatever ails you on thanksgiving is to just take a walk. Butting heads with your in laws? Take a stroll and cool off. Need to find out who your niece has a crush on but she doesn’t want to talk about it in front of her parents? Stretch your legs with her. Bored with football? Out you go. Eat one too many pieces of pie? The great outdoors beckons. There is a very little that some fresh air and a hit of endorphins can’t solve.

What a trip, by Managing Director Jean Lenzner

With no family close by, I have traditionally used the Thanksgiving holidays as the perfect time to fit in a quick trip, often adding a vacation day or two make to stretch the long, holiday weekend. Last year’s destination was an unforgettable trip to the Amazon rainforest of Ecuador; other memorable locations have included Dubai and Hong Kong. As much as I loved each of these trips, I have found colder climates a little more conducive to engendering holiday spirit. Past cities have included Berlin, Montreal and Munich, as all of these cities host big Christmas markets. This year, I will be returning to New York City, and I am already looking forward to a bit of cold weather with all the lights and holiday decorations.

Jean’s advice? Make it an adventure!

And I never ate turkey again…

Director Bill Lepiesza shared this awkward moment from his post-college days:

One of our first post-college Thanksgivings, our friends had us over and didn’t realize that there was a plastic bag full of whatever inside the turkey (Editor’s note: giblets, that’s what’s in the plastic bag: heart, gizzard, liver and various other visceral organs), and cooked it with the bag inside. It was covered in melted plastic when it came out of the oven.

Bill’s advice? If the bag has melted or warped in any way during the cooking process, it’s best not to serve the turkey. The plastic contains chemicals that can leach into the bird. Frozen pizza, anyone?

The day she lost her lunch, by Ashley Martinez

Years ago, I went to Thanksgiving with my college boyfriend’s family. They live in the northern United States, and the weather was freezing cold. Dinner was going well until I started to feel nauseous. I excused myself and hurried to find a restroom. They were all full! I made my way to the front door just in time to lose everything I had eaten (it turns out they put cream in their mashed potatoes, and I’m lactose intolerant). By the time my boyfriend checked on me and I had pulled myself together, the vomit had frozen to the porch; we had to haul hot water from inside to wash it away. While my boyfriend’s mother’s first concern was getting that porch clean, the rest of the family put me at ease and diligently pointed out any dishes on the table made with dairy.

We’re still friends, and whenever I see him or any of his family members, it’s a running joke.

Ashley’s advice? Get those dietary restrictions out on the table before they are “out on the table” (or the front porch, or the bathroom).

Deep-fried turducken and Beaujolais

Database Research Administrator Mike Fulton, a Louisiana native, shares this story:

Many years ago, when I was around ten, my maternal grandfather—a devout Roman Catholic and a Cajun—drove to northeast Texas with us to have Thanksgiving with my father’s very observant, and teetotaling, Baptist family. He arrived with all the accoutrements to deep fry a turducken, as well as several bottles of Beaujolais. When my uncle protested about the wine, my grandfather just smiled and said, “I wrapped them up in brown paper just as the Baptists like it.” It was like the Wars of Religion in Europe all over again: Catholics on one side of the table sipping wine; Protestants on the other imbibing coffee or iced tea.

Mike’s advice? A little tolerance goes a long way.

Traditional takeout, by Managing Director Beth Ehrgott

Two years ago, as was tradition, the extended family gathered at my home for Thanksgiving. No one wanted to cook this year so we thought, no problem! We’ll order Chinese takeout. We called our favorite place down the road…closed. We tried the next place. And the next. And the next. We must’ve called a dozen places—all closed. Thanksgiving being a holiday all about food, I had assumed that most restaurants were open. I was wrong, and now I had a house full of hungry people and no food. We improvised: there was a half-eaten baked ziti in the fridge and two or three flank steaks in the freezer. And that was our Thanksgiving meal. You know what? We had a blast. True story.

Beth’s advice? Always have a backup plan.

A Thanksgiving vocabulary lesson, from Sarah Silva

When I was a little girl around eight or nine years old, I learned a new word at school. None of my classmates knew what it meant, but it sounded funny to our young ears, and we eagerly incorporated it into our growing vocabularies. Later in the month, during Thanksgiving dinner, my family members were saying our prayers and taking turns giving thanks. When it was my turn, I proceeded to list off all the people in my life I loved and appreciated. I mentioned a family member and used my new vocabulary word to describe him. The table went silent. My mom’s face dropped and quietly asked me if I knew what it meant.

That was first time I realized I had been calling my friends and family members a bad word. Thankfully, my family explained the meaning of the word, and gently suggested I strike it from my vocabulary. I apologized in great embarrassment. Our family still laughs about it to this day. (Just in case you are curious, the infamous word begins with “p” and rhymes with “trick”.)

Sarah’s advice? Laugh at yourself.

It was the kids, I swear!

Director of Finance and Administration Gayette Eicher tells this story about an invitation-only family holiday:

About five years ago, my kids and I were planning to go to Midland for the Thanksgiving holiday weekend. I can’t remember why our plans changed, but we found ourselves staying in Houston with no real plan. I quizzed each of my children as to what they would like to do; the consensus was for me to cook a traditional turkey dinner at my house. Shortly after my conversations with them, their dad’s plans changed, and he and his girlfriend were without a place to go on Thanksgiving. Inclined to believe the more, the merrier, I suggested to the kids that their dad and, let’s call her “T”, should join us. Unanimously and adamantly, the kids said yes to dad, but no to significant others. They wanted a family-only celebration. Against my better judgement and my nature, I complied. After inviting him via text, he responded, “what can we bring?” My response was, “you don’t have to bring anything but please don’t bring T.” He didn’t text back for a couple of days and when he did, his response was, “we’re going to do something else but thanks for the invite.” I never admitted that it was the kids’ decision. To this day, I’m sure he thinks it was me.

Gayette’s advice? Sometimes, there simply isn’t a graceful solution to an awkward situation. And that is the truth.

Guess who’s coming to dinner?

As if to prove Gayette’s point, Executive Assistant Bob Freeman shares this awkward story from his childhood:

My brother’s former wife showed on Thanksgiving just as we were about to eat. My mom swears she did not know she was coming nor invite her (but I think she did). The ex-wife tried to sit at the table close to my brother, but there was some resistance; for instance, “Why don’t you sit over here by…” It wasn’t long before she was involved in conversations with other family members, but my brother’s ex-wife remained visibly uncomfortable.

Bob’s advice? Thanksgiving is no time for surprises. Confirm your host’s invitation and, if you are the host or hostess, make sure your guests know who is coming to dinner.

Sometimes blended families work

Just when we all want to go running to the hills this holiday season, Associate Katelyn Griffith shares this charming story of a second family sending its love.

Almost every year, my boyfriend’s family hosts a big family reunion over the summer. It’s chance to spend a long weekend and real quality time with his aunts, uncles, cousins and their kids. They are some of the warmest and most welcoming people I have ever met, and have quickly made me feel like a member of the family. They also spend every other year celebrating Thanksgiving together. I haven’t been able to join them the past few years for Thanksgiving as I have been spending the holiday with my family. My boyfriend knows how much it means to me that his family would invite me and how much I love spending time with them, so each year he puts together a video for me. Everyone waves at the camera and shouts, “Hi, Katelyn!” It is the sweetest gesture and warms my heart year after year.

Katelyn’s advice? Find yourself a partner that goes out of their way to make you happy and a second family that always makes you feel special.

Peace and quiet and the presence of love, by Managing Director Jane Howze

Thanksgiving is more than Thanksgiving to me. It also coincides with my wedding anniversary. We will celebrate our 39th wedding anniversary on the 29th. We typically make Thanksgiving about us and celebrate in Hawaii where we honeymooned. In addition to the obvious benefits, we avoid any conflicts with family members, cooking mishaps and the other things that everyone else has written about above. I am always grateful for the peace and quiet and the presence of my love.

Her advice? Make the holiday your own.

Happy Thanksgiving from The Alexander Group

Together, we wish you a holiday season free of awkward moments. And if there are, as there inevitably will be, send your stories to us… we are always grateful for a good laugh.

When it comes to The Alexander Group traditions, Thanksgiving is a firmwide favorite. Whether celebrating the time of gratitude at a traditional dining table or on a beach, you’re sure to find us gathered with family and friends in meaningful locations, taking stock and making memories.

In the past, we’ve shared beloved recipes, travel tips and gratitude lists, so this year, we invite you to join our tables for the holiday in California, Hawaii, New Orleans, and Houston. These snapshots of Thanksgiving’s past reflect our authenticity, creativity, and thankfulness.

We’re pleased to share these moments with you.

Happy Thanksgiving from The Alexander Group!

Director Bill Lepiesza shares his daughter’s Thanksgiving Turkey art.

To recruit middle management executives successfully, organizations must focus on strategies that identify candidates with high potential and long-term leadership capability. This executive leadership recruiter’s guide outlines four essential tips to help you attract and hire middle-management talent who can drive growth and scale with your organization.

Why Recruiting Executives from Middle Management is Important

We’ve addressed the importance of succession planning. We related that the stress associated with a leadership change is inversely proportional to the amount of planning an organization undertakes for its leadership transitions. Many organizations mitigate the uncertainty of a leadership transition by developing a mid-management executive bench of possible successors to avoid the need to recruit management from outside the organization.

Arrow pointing up if you use our 4 tips to Recruit Middle Management Executives

Recruiting high-potential middle-management executives can immediately add value and long-term leadership options. The Alexander Group (TAG) searches for managers poised to climb the ladder to the C-suite and who can scale as an organization grows.

Who are middle managers?

Middle managers bridge the gap between senior leadership and frontline employees, translating strategic goals into actionable tasks while overseeing daily operations and team performance. They are critical in shaping organizational culture, driving change, and mentoring future leaders. Their deep understanding of the organization’s culture and team dynamics makes them invaluable in recruiting executives, as they can identify candidates who align with both technical needs and long-term goals. By involving middle managers in the recruitment process, organizations gain a more holistic evaluation of candidates and ensure a smoother transition for new executives.

How To Recruit Middle Management Executives

The following is our advice for recruiting managers with high succession potential:

Include members of the executive team in the search process.

Too often, senior executives delegate middle-management hiring and need more involvement in the hiring process. Participation is limited to a brief interview, often during the candidate’s final round of interviews. When interviewing a candidate, senior executives must take the time, free from distractions, to assess the candidate’s long-term leadership potential, experience, and credentials. Also, consider including other executive team members who can offer a different perspective and confirm the candidate’s leadership potential.

One of our clients, the CEO of a global industrial manufacturing company, participates in the initial interview of a middle-management candidate and subsequently meets the candidate again for dinner. His time signifies to the candidate that they have high potential and are long-term hires. He believes that “you can learn a lot about a candidate, who they are, their management philosophy, and what kind of leader they are” in an informal and personal setting.

Expand the position’s responsibilities to attract up-and-coming senior executives.

Consider expanding the position’s responsibilities by incorporating higher-level responsibilities that would attract candidates driven by growth opportunities and success. Discuss expanding the role with other leadership so that everyone is on board. In addition, be prepared to discuss the position’s short—and long-term objectives and development opportunities with the candidate.

We recently recruited the Controller for a national law firm whose Chief Financial Officer will likely replace the firm’s Chief Operating Officer when she retires in two years. The Controller will be an internal candidate to succeed the CFO. With this in mind, the CFO delegated some of his critical strategic responsibilities to the Controller and shared the role of presenting quarterly presentations to the partnership. This gives the Controller higher visibility, credibility, and the opportunity to establish a rapport with firm leadership.

Look outside of the box to recruit middle management executives.

Rather than narrow the focus on industry-specific experience, senior recruiting managers should consider expanding their search to include different industries and geographic locations. As we blogged a few years ago, companies continue to find value and impact in recruiting from outside their industry. Depending on what the manager is being brought on board to do, cultural leadership and functional skills may be more important than direct sector or industry experience.

Develop a comprehensive recruitment strategy that includes passive candidates.

Many exceptional managers are challenged in their current positions and must look at the job market actively. They need to review postings on career sites and send their resumes to search firms, but conventional recruitment methods miss them. Work with an executive management recruiter to identify passive candidates with a track record of accomplishment and experience leading high-performing teams. 

As TAG Director Sarah Mitchell wrote

“The role of the recruiter is: connector and communicator who can help a client define a clear picture of the type of person and the skills required for a critical role, and then in turn identify, recruit and educate an ideal executive about our client and the opportunity.”

As Ayn Rand said, “The ladder of success is best climbed by stepping on the rungs of opportunity,” the key to recruiting middle management executives with high potential is to create the ‘rungs of opportunity’ in the position.

Recruit Middle Management Executives for Success

Building strong leadership and driving organizational growth means companies must recruit middle management executives from their ranks. Whether you’re an organization looking to attract high-potential talent or a middle manager ready to take the next step in your career, these strategies—engaging executive teams, expanding role responsibilities, broadening search criteria, and targeting passive candidates—can help align the right opportunities with the right people. If you’re seeking top middle-management talent or are a candidate ready to excel in a leadership role, contact The Alexander Group today to explore how we can support your goals.

Illustration of a businessperson holding a clock, emphasizing punctuality as part of executive search best practices.

We recommend following executive search best practices to our clients because they also play a pivotal role in securing top talent. So, to ensure a successful hire, companies must treat executive search as a partnership, valuing the experience as much as candidate qualifications. 

One important point we make is that early impressions can greatly influence a candidate’s enthusiasm for joining. This guide will help you, as an executive search firm client, understand the key actions and strategies that contribute to making a strong, positive first impression on the most qualified candidates.

First Impressions in Recruitment

The executive search process is a two-way street. While much attention is given to candidates making the best first impression, clients need to remember that they need to nail that first impression, too. A critical part of effective executive recruiting strategies is ensuring that clients present themselves as a desirable workplace, making early interactions meaningful and productive.

Successful searches are built on a foundation of open communication. Before interviewing a candidate, a client should provide as much access as necessary to its executive search partner so that the team, company culture, and other essential details about the opportunity are accurately represented to the candidate.

Six Executive Search Best Practices for Employers

No matter how much information a candidate provides, the initial meeting is still a make-or-break event, dictating whether a desired candidate wants to continue on in the executive recruitment process. There are several simple but essential points for clients to remember to ensure they make the best first impression possible.

1. Be on time. 

One client of ours – a senior hiring executive for a multi-billion revenue technology company – valued punctuality in the extreme. If a candidate was even a few minutes late, regardless of mitigating factors, they were stricken from consideration. The client’s reasoning was that arriving on time demonstrated the depth of professionalism, preparedness, and respect for the hiring manager that a candidate possessed. 

We wouldn’t go so far as to expect a candidate to withdraw if a hiring manager is a few minutes late. However, one important client interview tip is to ensure interactions start on the right foot, avoiding situations where a candidate waits alone for 30 minutes in a vacant lobby.

2. Give a candidate your full attention.

We’ve heard horror stories from candidates where client interviewers read and respond to emails on their desktop PC for extended periods during the meeting. Candidates are giving their time – when they could be responding to emails, doing critical work, etc. – and commitment to the meeting. The client should show appreciation for the situation and similarly fully engage themselves.

3. Do your homework.

Top candidates perform in-depth due diligence before an interview; clients should do the same. Starting a meeting by saying, “This is the first time I’ve had a free minute to look at your resume” to a candidate doesn’t reflect how busy you are but rather the level of respect you are showing to the candidate. Top search firms provide concise, detailed appraisals of a candidate in addition to their resume, and it is critical to take the time to review those documents prior to the meeting.

4. Guide the process.

A good candidate listens first and will look to you for indicators. Be clear on the essential points you want to cover in your allotted time. Many clients must spend more time thinking through or planning the interview session. When familiarizing yourself with the candidate’s background before the meeting, think through precisely the interview goal – what are you trying to learn, and how will you ensure that you do so?

5. Details matter.

Typical business attire at the company may not be a suit and tie, but don’t show up to the interview looking ready for vacation. Again, the candidate is investing significant time in the search process and evaluating all the cues they can from you. The condition of your office, how you carry yourself, and other non-verbal indicators speak volumes to a candidate about you and your company.

6. Roll out the red carpet.

That cross-country relocation looks a lot more palatable when an organization shows it truly cares and makes the candidate feel special. If a client is putting all their effort into showing how much they value and respect the candidate’s participation in the process, the candidate may only stay in the process for a short time.

First impressions aren’t everything, but by making a great one, a client ensures they are in the best position possible to eventually welcome that top candidate on board.

Mastering Executive Search Best Practices and the First Impression

Following executive search best practices is essential not only for attracting top candidates but also for ensuring a smooth and successful hiring process. As an executive search client, your actions, preparation, and the impression you create during initial interactions are all decisive factors in an executive search strategy.

By treating the executive search process as a collaborative partnership, showing respect for candidates’ time, and committing to making a strong first impression, you put yourself in the best position to welcome the ideal executive into your organization. Remember, the investment you make in the process is a reflection of the quality of talent you’ll attract—and following these best practices will help you achieve hiring success.

You’ll find more information on our C-level search firm on our website.

Anton Levchik has joined Seward & Kissel LLP as Chief Financial Officer.

Mr. Levchik is an experienced leader with an extensive track record of financial operations and advisory capabilities within legal and professional services firms.

Before joining Seward & Kissel LLP, Mr. Levchik was the CFO at Foley Hoag LLP in New York, New York. Mr. Levchik received a Master of Business Administration from New York University Stern School of Business and a Bachelor of Science in Accounting from Fordham University.

This search was conducted and completed by Managing Director Jean Lenzner and Director Bill Lepiesza.

Seward & Kissel LLP, founded in 1890, is a leading US law firm with an international reputation
for excellence. With approximately 170 attorneys across offices in New York City and Washington
DC, the firm’s practice primarily focuses on corporate and litigation work for clients seeking legal
expertise in the financial services, corporate finance, and capital markets.

The firm is well known for its representation of central commercial banks, investment banking
firms; investment advisors and related investment funds (including mutual, hedge, and private
equity funds); broker-dealers; institutional investors; and maritime and transportation companies.
The firm’s award-winning attorneys are highly regarded in their respective practice areas, and many
have been with the firm for most, if not all, of their legal careers.

The firm’s focus and expertise, combined with its stability, have enabled it to create a work culture that is dedicated to professional excellence and sound judgment and that is committed to providing its clients with effective, high-quality, hands-on legal service.

Susan van Vollenhoven has joined Pierce Atwood LLP as Director of Human Resources. Ms. Van Vollenhoven has an extensive leadership background in human resources including employee relations, performance management and compensation and benefits. Before joining Pierce Atwood, Ms. Van Vollenhoven was Director of Human Resources & Operations at Sullivan & Worcester LLP. Ms. Van Vollenhoven earned a bachelor’s degree in political science and an MBA from Questrom School of Business, Boston University.

Before joining Pierce Atwood, Ms. Van Vollenhoven was Director of Human Resources & Operations at Sullivan & Worcester LLP. Ms. Van Vollenhoven earned a Bachelor’s degree in Political Science and an MBA from Questrom School of Business, Boston University.

This search was conducted and completed by Managing Director John Mann and Senior Associate Mike Doering.

Pierce Atwood LLP is a leading New England full-service law firm with 150 attorneys. This nationally and internationally recognized firm is known for its expertise in complex and class action litigation, energy production and distribution, midmarket mergers and acquisitions, information security and technology, commercial real estate development, and complex construction projects. Established in 1891, Pierce Atwood’s clients range from regional and local enterprises, utilities, financiers, middle-market companies, entrepreneurs and individuals to Fortune 500 companies, multinational corporations, and foreign governments.